Weird weather 'round here lately - we had 90 degree temps with ugly humidity just a few days ago - and today it's in the 60's, overcast with leaves beginning to turn and fall. We're heading to Vermont soon with the kiddos and my mom. We're all hoping for that glorious color we actually also get here but for some reason it seems even more spectacular and cozy against a Vermont background. You know I'll share pictures with you when we return.
The Mr. and I had dinner on Stella's deck the other evening as we were pummeled by the massive oak tree's acorns. Stupid me thought I could scoot across the lawn barefoot to retrieve something and (@#!*@ ) damned near screamed doing it. There will be no more scooting on bared-naked feet whilst the acorns are a-fallin. One of those acorns must have fallen from the very highest branch of that tree and chipped my Jeep's windshield too. The tree is a beautiful, stately old oak on the side of the cottage that must be about 100 years old. I really hate the idea of cutting it down, but Lord, the mess it makes, as it's acorn production is prolific! It's something we're debating.
While we sat down there watching the yard fill up with acorns, we took stock of all the good times we had on this, our first summer of cottage life. It was absolutely the right decision, to acquire and renovate Stella, even though our finances took a hit because of it. We have all enjoyed it and hope for many years of memory making down there to come. I can also tell you if you're looking to do the same, we are very very glad we decided to look fairly local for that little cottage, instead of schlepping three hours or even farther for another. Because we have obligations here at the farm, getting away often would not happen if that drive were a bigger one. It's easy to go check on things, and easy to just go for the day or the evening, even on work days.
We took a selfie on Stella's concrete dock/slab...
This picture says something to me... some things do get better with age. Because we're so thick headed and opinionated and thickandopinionated, wash, rinse and repeat.... our marital road has been a bumpy one. We love each other very much and sometimes we really can't stand each other.. washRinseRepeat. I can tell you this if you haven't already experienced it yourself - as we get older, we're finding it's not as important to express our different selves as it is to revel in each other's alikeness. We both cherish the same things and it's those things that truly see a person through. Life ain't easy.. .....I'm sure glad I'm not going it alone and I've got a truly good soul walking the path with me. Even if he did vote for..... I'll just quit while we're ahead here.
Leaving you with these pictures, the last of which I took this morning as I walked up to the barn to feed horses. This house we live in is another that has gotten better with age - and as it's "newness" after renovation has begun to wear, I love it even more.
I call our house Saving Grace, or Gracie - because 8 years ago, when we picked her back up from decrepitude, we were her saving grace and she was ours.
Greeting the sun each morning since 1835 -
Till soon, friends.....



I'm so glad you are enjoying Stella! I like that you are so near to her-sometimes I wish we had bought something closer. It's a 2 hour drive, 100 miles exactly to get to the lake. Now that I go so much on my own, it's not so bad as I can pretty much stay as long as I want and not have to pack up after 2 days. The traffic usually sucks once you get near Chicago, but otherwise not a terrible drive.
ReplyDeleteI loved reading your blog when you were bringing the old farmhouse to life. That was true passion! And your words on marriage, I can identify. It's a long journey with a lot of bumps in the road. If you trust your love, you'll make it through!
Happy Weekend, Karen. Nice and cool here but it's supposed to get hot again this week. :(
Jane
Jane, we are lucky enough that the coast is just minutes from us... I understand why you travel two hours for that lake :-)
DeleteHappy Weekend to you too, friend. I am loving the crisp fall air too...
Such a beautiful home! I can't stand to have my bare feet on the floor or outdoors or any place except the shower. Maybe it's an Asperger's thing. Boy, that would be hard if your significant other voted opposite!
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Oh, Brenda - I am a bare foot lover for sure. I read another blog and her son (very intelligent with a side of Aspergers) does not like to be touched. It might very well be an Aspy thing.
DeleteYep, he's a republican forever and a day, and so he will not vote against party. He doesn't approve of all the antics, but he does approve the republican view.
Beautiful thoughts for an overcast afternoon. No peace in this house this afternoon while my husband of 34 years, the Rump voter, went head to head with Daughter #1. But we are also going to Vermont to find some peace and some pieces (of apple pie, that is) as it's time for the Dummerston Church Festival which you once wrote about on these pages. My brother and sister-in-law and every able-bodied church member have been baking full-time and expect to have 1500 pies ready for next Sunday. Vermont, family and apple pie. Good times!
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Ah, so you know my woe on that front!!... UGH!!!!!...
DeleteAND.. We will be in the same area next weekend! Saturday heading to Scotts orchard right near the Dummerston Church Festival grounds and then on to the Newfane Heritage Festival and Woodstock after. Have you been to tne Newfane Heritage Festival? Love it! Just up the road about 17 miles or so.
LOL- You two sound just like us. We can disagree on the disagreement...lol...but still have fun. We both love our kids and lives so, in the end, discussions are just a little veering off from 'rightness'. I GET it, Karen!
ReplyDeleteHave fun on your trip and you were SO smart to buy a place close to home. Our cottage was 30 minutes from our house and absolutely the perfect distance...far enough away to be 'away' but close enough to get to work, etc. as needed.
I hope you have a great night...and if you could, please pray for my SIL, Jason, as he undergoes cancer surgery on Tuesday. (post up on my blog for him tonight). xo Diana
Sending prayer for your SIL, Diana - xo
DeleteI just love your home! (both of them!) My husband and I do not have the same political views either, but you're absolutely right about how things mellow the longer you stay married. We are definitely less "volatile" than we were years ago! It's just not worth it. -Jenn
ReplyDeleteAmen, Jenn. And thank you!
DeleteYou already know I love that pic of you two. I had to laugh at wash/rinse/repeat; perhaps if I'd done more rinsing - well never mind. :)
ReplyDeleteIt's truly magical and wonderful how y'all work together making dreams come true; both with building/rebuilding homes and I love both!
xoxo
Your house transformation never fails to blow me away!
ReplyDeleteYou all need helmets next time you eat outside ;-)
LOL~ and thank you, Lisa -
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