Saturday, January 25, 2014

The power of prejudice and love

 I have a lot to share with you today....and we're about to get more snow, so ... it's the perfect time to sit at the computer and ignore it. I contemplated the post title and realized all the bouncing around would fall under two catagories....prejudice and *love*  and what we can accomplish when we take love in and let it out, drop all prejudice to see things for what they really are.  Don't ever be afraid to love, to care, to cherish, to reach out... be afraid if you don't.





My friend in Rescue just took a leap of faith.  "P" saw a soul on death row she just couldn't resist and was drawn to go meet him. 


 Oh, do I know the thought that just crossed your mind.   A PIT BULL!  Do you see the above picture as a menacing face?  You wouldn't be alone.   He was found wandering the streets,with a bad case of mange and not neutered... even worse!

For the truth about Pit Bulls... if you're really interested and want more reading, click HERE     I bet you wouldn't guess that they were a very popular family dog in the beginning of the 20th century,

Petey of the little Rascals was a Pit Bull...



..... they are originally from England and Ireland and their typical characteristics include loyalty, obedience,  friendly, clownish, stubborn, courageous, aggressive, intelligent, affectionate.  Are you focusing on the words aggressive and stubborn?  The same is said of many  other dog breeds.  My dachsund is aggressive and stubborn.   It's not the pit bulls fault that because of their athletic ability they were chosen by some  to suffer major abuse and were tormented to participate in fighting. 



It's a crime that pit bulls have the horrible stigma attached to their being.  Every living thing is capable of doing harm.  It's all in the circumstances.  Dogs -  more often than not... show us just how forgiving they are, how willing to love and be loved they are, regardless the abuse they may have suffered. In my experience it has become clear that  no breed suffers more at the hands of man or is more misunderstood  than the pit bull. There will always be those who have behavioral issues, just as there are in any other breed you might think are more worthy of trust.  PEOPLE have behavioral issues, so please lets get past all that.


I have no doubt, judging by his physical condition and where he was found, that Jack had a sh*tty life before being brought to the shelter.  "P"  caught some flack from well intentioned friends who also believe the stigma and thought she was making a mistake.   "P" wrote a beautiful post this morning about her adopted and already beloved Jack, who is settling in quite nicely with his new family -consisting of a teenager, two other dogs and a few rescue kittens.  All are getting along well and Jack shows manners already around the house.  She says of the prejudice she has witnessed from friends... this quote by Martin Luther King Jr.  comes to mind... "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character."    Oh, how this can be applied to so many things in life, no?  

Jack seeing himself in a mirror after a good bath  in his new home....


Feeling good for the first time in a long time.. seen here with his new Mom, "P".


 Can you see the diamond in the "ruff"?  

It's a beautiful thing.






I've got an update on the South Carolina dogs and the impoverished couple who have been mercifully feeding 20 or so stray dogs that have wandered onto their property for the past five years.  Dog days now has a rescue contact who  is keeping them posted with pictures and updates, and bringing the supplies and help needed to the dogs.  Several of you have donated to the cause already, and I can't tell you how grateful I am to every one of you for stepping up and believing in our mission. We are hoping to bring them up here and hold a mini Dog Days adoption event just for them... if they can't find homes down there, and that will require transport as well as full vetting for each dog. For now your donations are helping Dog Days feed them as well as worming and shots  for the ones who have not gotten that care yet.    These people live in a tiny shack they built themselves and are facing big health issues, yet their every spare dime as gone to these dogs that others discarded.  To read more of the story, click HERE...

 * some of you donated on the original Dog Days GoFundMe page.. this new one was set up to avoid any confusion, but it all still goes to the Dog Days Team, all applied to save the dogs, feed them through this cold snap, and hopefully get them homes, either here or there. Dog Days takes no money, we are all volunteers. The money raised goes directly to the care of the dogs.

What do I feel today?  The power of  LOVE.  and... Hooray for the Underdog.
What a sap, huh?
  




19 comments:

  1. I will be showing this post to a friend who has recently adopted a pit bull mix who has a few behavior issues but is still loved:)

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  2. I love hearing about pitties getting adopted. One of these days I'll have room in the house for one.

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  3. My nephew is in University and fosters pit bulls. He's such a sweetie and loves them to bits.

    was bitten last year by a pit bull puppy and I must say I am a bit nervous of the breed. That said, I have a friend with a rescue pit bull and he is lovely. My other friends have a golden retriever who haven;t seen in 8 years because he is aggressive and not to be trusted so gets locked up when I go over.

    Jack is a lucky boy.

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  4. My nephew is in University and fosters pit bulls. He's such a sweetie and loves them to bits.

    was bitten last year by a pit bull puppy and I must say I am a bit nervous of the breed. That said, I have a friend with a rescue pit bull and he is lovely. My other friends have a golden retriever who haven;t seen in 8 years because he is aggressive and not to be trusted so gets locked up when I go over.

    Jack is a lucky boy.

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  5. NO, you are not a SAP. You just have a heart, a pretty big one.
    And you are so right about pits....Roy is my third one, and every one of them has been a special, loving and wonderful friend.
    I cried for a year when the first one died, her name was Chickiwu, and when Eddie died at 14, I thought both DH and I were going to have to get counseling.....then Roy came into our lives, much like Jack......he is snoozing beside me as I right this....snoring a little. I love him more than I can tell you......I promised him when we rescued him (or he rescued us) that he would never have another bad day. And I'm keeping my promise. It is so worth it.

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  6. They used to call Pit Bulls the nanny dog. It's such a shame they get a bad rap these days. They were so popular as family pets in the "olden days".

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  7. Pitts are a great family dog. They can take major abuse from kids because of their tolerance for pain. My own sweet George is a rescued American Staffordshire Terrier and is lumped in with the bully-breed doggies. He is the sweetest guy and just now while we were eating steak I handed him a piece and my hand was entirely in his mouth.

    In fact, I can stick my hands in his kibble while he is eating! I've seen a 9 pound cat make him wait while the cat ate George's kibble. I stopped the bully-cat. :)

    My sister-in-law's Goldens are another matter! I handed one a treat (owner approved) and he nearly took off my hand!

    All dogs can be bad. All dogs can be good.

    The sweet little guy in your post is such a lucky dog! He has the sweetest face!

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  8. Very nice post, Karen. I am a big fan of Pit Bulls and Parolees. And I've learned a lot about the breed from them. It's sad how much abuse is put onto dogs and other animals. It baffles the mind how cruel humans can be.

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  9. I've been bitten by a few dogs in my life...probably because I've been too friendly. I don't think it's fair to isolate one breed. Perhaps the Pibulls just make the news more often.

    I support the Anti-Cruelty Society but would like to change that to something not so diverse so I'm looking for something in my area that is similar to your focus.

    XO,
    Jane

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  10. While I would never own a pit bull for personal reasons.

    My brother received one for a gift from his step-daughter. I can tell you he was not happy. But, how can you refuse a cute puppy. They had her for 14 years, she was very docile and they adored her.

    I don't like that this breed has become a "status" dog for people who do not have the brains, or means to take care of them properly.

    Nevertheless, they are a living being, and I'm glad your friend rescued him, no one should be put on death row.

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  11. His poor skin! It hurts me just to look at it! Poor little thing!

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  12. Two close friends have wonderful pit bulls that they adore. One you know, Carole. I have learned through them the truth about the breed, Their dogs are wonderful members of the family.

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  13. My granddog is the sweetest, most loveable Pit around. She's great around the children, even when they were babies. Congratulations to Jack for find a home and to P for allowing the love to conquer the stigma attached to a breed with a bad reputation, caused mostly by humans. I wish them both the best!

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  14. they truly are UNFAIRLY judged :(
    and it hurts my heart that so many of them have had a crappy life just because of WHAT they are :(

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  15. How wonderful that this lady took a chance and gave this dog a home!

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  16. Not a sap, but a beautiful woman with a very big sensitive heart. when I saw the pit bull my first thought was what a darling dog. I don't have a problem with them. Your friend is awesome to take him in!

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  17. Hey Karen, just wanted to say again thank you to one rescue mama from another. I just read your las,t few post. And last year I started a fun little shop. ( closed jan feb, march, no heat. But I am reopening in April with lots of fun new ideas and having a grand opening. And now I too plan on having a rescue wall! Why the heck not ?
    Stay warm
    Sharon

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